by Maya Sin
Pegging is nothing new to lifestyle dommes, and the submissives who love them, but it’s definitely having its moment. Pegging has captured the attention of people in the vanilla community too. You may be wondering what all the attention is about and if you’re missing out.
As a lifestyle and professional Domme who has had years of experience shoving a dildo up a submissive’s ass, I can tell you that strap-on play has a lot of devoted fans. And it’s an integral part of my own Femdom relationships.
For many submissive men, pegging is the ultimate experience, because so much is happening at once, physically, and mentally.
You might ask yourself what anal play feels like as a submissive man. You might wonder why anyone would want to do it. Or you might want to know what both the Domme and submissive gets out of pegging.
Are you intrigued by pegging? I’m excited to tell you all about it.
Why would a submissive man be interested in pegging?
Anal play can stimulate the prostate, which is a gland located between the bladder and the rectum. When it’s stimulated in the right way it can be incredibly pleasurable for a man, and lead to powerful full-body orgasms that may be very different than what they are used to.
I think you can see where this is going.
Submissive men love pegging because it completely flips the standard sexual dynamic between a man and woman. It makes a man feel vulnerable; they may enjoy the feeling of being penetrated and filled to the max. And submissive men get off on the power exchange. Instead of giving, they must submit to what a Domme will give them. It’s a pure form of submission, and a beautiful one at that.
Men who are pegged learn to be more submissive, and are rewarded with a unique feeling of pleasure for surrendering. Once you have a dick in your ass it makes you highly aware of the feeling of receiving, and how it can require emotional and physical release. I like the lesson that gives to submissives.
Why would a Domme be interested in pegging?
Speaking for myself, I can say that there is no experience quite like having a man bend over and present his ass for me. The immense feeling of power is unlike almost any other activity. I love having men in this vulnerable position, and I savor every moment of it.
There’s also a social and cultural element that plays nicely into a power exchange relationship. Society says that men are the hunters, and women are the prey. Men are conditioned to initiate sex and be the aggressor.
Pegging is a delicious way to flip the script viscerally and symbolically. It’s a taboo activity that supercharges the play.
Pegging is such an intimate sexual experience for both people. Being on the controlling end of that experience is an incredible surge of power for me. I enjoy fucking a man and what it says about who is in charge. I like being in control of the pleasure, and release, of my submissive.
What are some variations on pegging?
In a kink dynamic, pegging doesn’t just stop with anal play. Humiliating a man with a strap-on dildo is so much fun for me. I enjoy having a man kneel in front of me and telling him to suck my dick.
I might choke him with the length of it, or tease him with it, mercilessly. I can teach him how to give a good blow job and criticize him when he doesn’t do it right.
I’ve also slapped their faces with the dildo or rubbed their own spit across their faces. I like to make them the submissive star of their own porn film.
And again, flipping this scenario, so the woman is completely in charge, and the man must perform, is delectable for me.
One more note that has to be addressed.
One thing that some men worry about is if being pegged makes them gay, or bisexual.
It’s a sexual activity that feels good. And it does play with gender roles, but that’s part of what makes it so powerful and fulfilling for both players.
But the activity itself doesn’t say anything about the sexuality of the participants. You get to determine your own path and choose your own labels.
Are you ready to be pegged?
Submissive men can explore new types of pleasure, including a full-body orgasm, by engaging in pegging. They can also discover new levels of submission, and experience the physical and emotional feeling of receiving.
Pegging allows Dommes to intimately control the reactions of the submissive man. It puts them firmly in charge of a taboo activity that subverts societal norms. Finally, it’s fun and opens up a whole realm of teasing, denial, humiliation, and other possibilities.
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